Marie F. Cottrell, 90, of Rumson, died peacefully Dec. 26, 2024, surrounded by her loved ones, following a life devoted to her family, friends and community.
Born in Brownsville, Texas, Marie was one of eight children, lovingly known as the “peacemaker” in the family which, along with traditional social graces, endeared her to all who knew her.
Marie married her lifelong partner, James H. Cottrell, in 1954 and followed her husband wherever his work took the family, from North Carolina to Louisiana and Alberta, Canada, before ultimately settling in Rumson in 1964 near James’ familial roots.
A woman of deep faith, Marie was an active member of Holy Cross Church where she served as a lector, president of the Altar Guild and a member of the long-range planning committee. She also led the popular Rumson Antiques Show fundraiser for many years.
Marie supported the greater community through her volunteer work on the Rumson Historic Preservation Commission and the Monmouth Historical Association Board.
A lifetime member of Rumson Garden Club, Marie held nearly every board position, including president. She received the Club Appreciation Award from the Rumson Garden Club and the prestigious Medal of Merit from the Garden Club of America, which cited her powerful and inspirational drive, commitment to selflessness and zeal as a long-time member and leader. Her passion for orchids and talent for nurturing them was well known among her friends and family.
Not surprisingly, Marie fully enjoyed the social aspects of the Rumson Country Club and Seabright Beach Club, where she and her husband were long-time members. She also devoted her time to serving significant tenures on the board of governors of each club. Notably, Marie chaired the Bridge Committee for many years; she was a competitive participant and advocate for the game.
In her leisure time, Marie savored travel opportunities with her husband and children, including attending her family reunions held every three years since 1976, where her passion for music and family was shared with everyone. Marie was also an ardent Yankees fan and rarely missed a game, whether watching on TV, attending in person or listening to the radio as she fell asleep. She also cherished annual trips to Princeton football games, allowing her to reminisce on the early years of her marriage spent at Princeton while her husband completed his college education.
Marie was predeceased by her husband of 52 years, James H. Cottrell. She is survived by her four children, James H. Cottrell Jr. (Melissa) of Brunswick, Maine, Craig T. Cottrell (Lori) of Glastonbury, Connecticut, Christiane C. McNamara (Doug) of Fair Haven, and Stephen O. Cottrell (Cathy) of Rumson, 10 grandchildren and two great-grandchildren.
Marie’s greatest joy was her family. She adored her children and husband unconditionally and cherished her grandchildren. Her strength, compassion and loving spirit were an inspiration. In her own words, Marie had “the fullest life any woman can have.”
A Mass of Christian Burial was held Jan. 2 at Holy Cross Church, Rumson. Interment was private. A celebration of life will be held in spring 2025.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in memory of Marie to Lunch Break, 121 Dr. James Parker Blvd., Red Bank, NJ 07701 or lunchbreak.org.
Arrangements are under the direction of Thompson Memorial Home of Red Bank.
The article originally appeared in the January 23 – 29, 2025 print edition of The Two River Times.
