Barbara B. Grant, 90, passed away peacefully Nov. 14, 2025, at her home in Red Bank.
Born June 11, 1935, in White Plains, New York, Barbara lived a life defined by love, devotion and an unwavering belief in the goodness of others.
She was predeceased by her beloved husband of 64 years, Donald R. Grant; her parents, Carroll Brown and Dorothy Blakely Brown; her sister, Dorothy Stitcher Orlopp; and her brother, Alan Brown.
Barbara leaves behind her four sons – Randy Grant (Caroline), Rip Grant (Carol), Ross Grant (Mary) and Rusty Grant (Susan) – all of whom remained close to their mother throughout her life. She is also survived by her brother, George Brown; nine grandchildren; six great-grandchildren; and her cherished feline companion, Rosie.
A graduate of Syracuse University, Barbara spent the summer before her senior year working at Continental Can Company to finance a move from the family home to her on-campus sorority house. It was there she met the love of her life, Don. They were married Nov. 17, 1957, beginning a partnership marked by deep affection, mutual respect and a shared commitment to family. Together, they raised four sons and built a full and joyful life in Richmond, Virginia; Framingham, Massachusetts; Greenwich, Connecticut; St. Louis, Missouri; Barrington, Illinois; New Canaan, Connecticut; Little Silver; and, ultimately, Red Bank.
Barbara started her career as a social worker and, after raising children, reentered the workforce, spending 20 years in the guidance department at New Canaan High School, where her warmth, empathy and steadfast support left a lasting impact on countless students and colleagues.
Known for her generosity, humility and constant care for others, Barbara devoted herself to her family, friends and community. She was passionate about cooking and baking, active in her church and choir and loved to travel. She enjoyed Frank Sinatra, cats of all kinds, and cheering for the New York Yankees and New York Giants.
Above all, Barbara treasured family most, raising her four sons and watching her family grow to include grandchildren and great-grandchildren. She was, and will always be remembered as, the best wife, mother, grandmother and great-grandmother – an extraordinary role model in every sense.
A service in celebration of Barbara’s life will be held at 11 a.m. Monday, Nov. 24, at St. George’s-by-the-River, 7 Lincoln Ave., Rumson.
In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to Lunch Break, 121 Drs. James Parker Blvd., Red Bank, NJ 07701 or lunchbreak.org.
The article originally appeared in the November 20 – 26, 2025 print edition of The Two River Times.
