Patrick O’Rourke Jr., affectionately known as PJ, passed away peacefully at his home in Keansburg Aug. 5, 2024, at the age of 39. Born Jan. 9, 1985, PJ was a lifelong resident of New Jersey, raised in the Laurence Harbor and Aberdeen area. He was a beloved son, brother, uncle and friend, cherished for his kind heart and selfless nature.
PJ is survived by his loving family: mother Diane O’Rourke; father Patrick O’Rourke Sr.; brothers, John and Shawn O’Rourke; sister Devon O’Rourke; and adored niece Rosalie. His family remembers him as an intelligent and caring person who was always there to lend a helping hand or a listening ear.
A proud 2003 graduate of Matawan High School, PJ excelled academically. He earned a degree from Monmouth University in 2007. His dedication to his studies was evident in his consistent achievement of straight A’s, a testament to his intelligence and work ethic.
Professionally, PJ was respected and valued as an Inbound Expert at Target in Middletown. His colleagues knew him as someone who was not only proficient in his role but also someone who brought warmth and kindness to the workplace every day. His contributions to the team and the company were deeply appreciated, and he will be missed by all who had the pleasure of working alongside him.
PJ’s interests were a reflection of his joyful spirit and love for the simple pleasures in life. A homebody at heart, he found solace and excitement in playing computer games, where he could explore new worlds and challenge himself in the digital realm. His passion for pop culture was also evident in his enthusiasm for Comic-Cons. These gatherings allowed him to connect with others who shared his interests and to celebrate the stories and characters he loved.
Those who knew PJ will remember him for the words that best describe him: kind, intelligent, and selfless. He had a huge heart and was always ready to do anything for anyone, without expecting anything in return. His presence brought light and laughter to any room and his generous spirit touched the lives of many.
PJ’s legacy is one of love, laughter and selflessness. He lived his life with a gentle strength and an unwavering commitment to the well-being of those around him. His memory will be cherished and kept alive in the hearts of his family, friends, and all who were fortunate enough to know him.
His family celebrates the life he lived and the countless ways he enriched their lives. His journey was one of purpose and joy and the impact of his time here will be felt for generations to come.
Friends and family may their respects from 5 to 8 p.m. Aug. 16 at Scott & Kedz Home for Funerals, 153 Church St., Belford. A service will conclude the evening and a private cremation will follow.
In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to your favorite charity in Patrick’s name.
The article originally appeared in the August 22 – 28, 2024 print edition of The Two River Times.
