Richard M. Nelson, a cherished soul and respected member of the Middletown community, passed away peacefully on May 16, 2025, at the age of 88. Born on November 26, 1936, in Long Branch, Richard was raised in Belford and later made Middletown his home for 64 years. His life was a testament to his kind nature, friendly demeanor, and handy skills, which touched the lives of many.
Richard’s journey began as the beloved son of Leonard and Selma Nelson, who predeceased him. His life was enriched by love and companionship when he married his late wife, Beverly, with whom he shared 59 wonderful years until her passing in 2018. Together, they raised a family that included two sons, Richard and his wife, Tara Nelson, Eric and his wife Donna Nelson, and a daughter and son-in-law, Jean and Robert Manfedi. Richard was also a loving brother to his sister, Doris Beutel. His legacy continues through his six grandchildren; Billy, Amanda, Robert, Daniel, Brandon, Sydney and Dana along with 4 great-grandchildren, Jack, Ashlyn, Aubriana and Devin, who will carry forward the values and memories he instilled in them. Rich also leaves behind many dear friends and neighbors, especially Dennis and Linda McGinnis who always made sure to check on him and lend a helping hand.
A true waterman at heart, Richard’s professional life was as vast and deep as the ocean he adored. He spent his days working with his hands and his heart, whether as a fisherman, a dock builder, or a pilot boat captain guiding vessels safely to harbor. His love for the community was evident in his role as a crossing guard for Middletown Schools, where he ensured the safety of countless children with a warm smile and a friendly wave.
Richard’s service to his country was marked by his proud tenure in the US Army, where he served during the Korean Conflict. His dedication to service was a hallmark of his character, and his patriotism was unwavering throughout his life.
A man of faith, Richard was a lifelong member of the Belford United Methodist Church, where he found solace and strength in his beliefs. His spiritual commitment was a guiding light for his family and friends, and his presence in the congregation will be deeply missed.
Beyond his community and spiritual endeavors, Richard was a man of many interests. He held a private pilot’s license, soaring through the skies with the same ease and grace he navigated the seas. His passion for the outdoors was evident in his love for nature, especially the bond he shared with the neighborhood squirrels and raccoons, which he fed by hand, activities that allowed him to connect with nature and share his knowledge and enthusiasm with others.
As we bid farewell to Richard M. Nelson, we celebrate a life that was full of purpose and joy. His departure leaves a void in the hearts of those who loved him, but his spirit will continue to inspire and guide us. Richard’s journey on this earth has come to a restful end, but the ripples of his influence will continue to spread, touching lives for generations to come.
The article originally appeared in the June 5 – 11, 2025 print edition of The Two River Times.
