Thomas M. Amato, 75, Belford, passed away peacefully Feb. 23, 2026.
He was born in New York City to Helen and Angelo Amato and raised in The Bronx. He received his master’s degree from St. John’s University and went on to build a meaningful career as a scientist, helping pave the way in research and development with intelligence and integrity.
Tom proudly served as a volunteer firefighter for 47 years with the Independent Fire Company of Belford, rising through the ranks to fire chief. He also served his company as president, treasurer and trustee. His commitment to protecting others and supporting his fellow firefighters was a source of immense pride.
Tom was predeceased by his parents and his sister, Linda Sheehan. He is survived by his loving wife, Lucy, of 52 years. Together, they created a loving home that was the center of his world. He was a devoted father to Jill and her partner Christopher, Michele, Craig and his fiancée Michelle (Elle). He was the proud and loving grandfather of Bellamie and Lucas, and his “fur grandchild,” Wendy. Also surviving are his brother Mike Sheehan and many nephews and nieces.
His grandchildren were truly his pride and joy as well as his fur babies, Cagney and Lacey.
In his spare time, Tom found happiness in life’s simple pleasures. He enjoyed collecting stamps and coins, cheering on his beloved Mets, tending to his lawn, and relaxing with a cocktail in the Caribbean sun. Known for his sweet tooth, warm smile and witty sense of humor, Tom brought laughter and kindness wherever he went.
Tom will be remembered for his loyalty, generosity, humor and the quiet strength with which he lived his life. His legacy of service and love will live on in the hearts of all who knew him.
A wake was held Feb. 26 at Pfleger Funeral Home, Middletown. A funeral Mass was celebrated Feb. 27 at St. Agnes Church, Atlantic Highlands. Intermittent followed at Mount Olivet Cemetery in Middletown.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made to the New Jersey Firemen’s Home, 565 Lathrop Ave., Boonton, NJ 07005.
The article originally appeared in the March 12 – 18, 2026 print edition of The Two River Times.
