It is with deep sadness that the family of Laura A. Merker announced her peaceful passing July 23, 2025, at the age of 83, surrounded by her loving family. A woman of remarkable spirit, creativity and generosity, Laura touched the lives of many through her unwavering kindness and zest for life.
Laura is survived by her children, daughter Karen Kraut and husband Kenneth, and son John Merker and wife Laura; her grandchildren, Ashley Affrunti and husband Brett, Amanda Merker, Stephanie Kraut, Lauren Chandler and husband Ryan, Alexa Merker, and Alliana Merker; and great-grandchildren, Kyla, Kasen, Willow and Nolan.
Laura was predeceased by her parents – mother Anna Gilbert and father John Williams – and her stepfather John Gilbert; her sisters, Anita Wares and husband James, Harriet McLaughlin and husband Patrick, and Lorraine DesBiens and husband Rusty; and her brother John Williams.
Laura was born June 2, 1942, in Hoboken. She grew up in Jersey City and later moved to Atlantic Highlands, where she raised her son and daughter. She then moved to Florida, where she was a dedicated public servant for many years, working for Martin and Alachua counties as an administrative assistant. Upon retirement, she moved back to New Jersey to be closer to her children and grandchildren.
Laura was a devoted longtime member of the Ladies Auxiliary VFW and held many leadership positions, including chaplain in more recent years. She was a longtime parishioner of Faith Chapel in Union Beach. She also volunteered for many years with the food pantry.
A master of crochet, she could often be found with a needle in hand, crafting beautiful pieces for family, friends and those in need. Never one to shy away from an adventure, Laura embraced life with a sense of curiosity and excitement. Whether it was cheering on her beloved New York Giants and Mets, enjoying the soothing waves at the beach, baking with her family, or tackling a new puzzle, she made the most of every moment. Her heart was as big as her many hobbies. A devoted volunteer, Laura was passionate about giving back to her community, always lending a hand wherever needed. A committed Christian, her faith was a cornerstone of her life, guiding her to live with grace, compassion and love for others.
She leaves behind a legacy of love, joy and a passion for helping others. Laura will be missed dearly by her family, friends and all who had the privilege of knowing her.
Visitation and funeral services were held July 28 at John F. Pfleger Funeral Home, Middletown.
The article originally appeared in the July 31 – August 6, 2025 print edition of The Two River Times.
